How to Have Great Shower Sex: The Positions, Tips & Toys to Make It Even Sexier

How to Have Great Shower Sex: The Positions, Tips & Toys to Make It Even Sexier

Positions, Tips & Toys: Spice Up Your Shower Time Together

Introduction

Shower sex can be an exciting way to spice up your intimate life. The warm water, steamy atmosphere, and change of scenery can add a thrilling element to your usual routine. However, it's not always as easy or glamorous as movies make it seem. This guide will walk you through the positions, tips, and toys that can help you have great shower sex and make it even sexier.

Safety First: Preparing for Shower Sex

Before diving into the fun part, it's crucial to prioritize safety:

  1. Non-slip mats: Install a non-slip mat in your shower to prevent accidents.
  2. Handrails: Consider installing sturdy handrails for extra support.
  3. Water temperature: Adjust the water temperature before getting started to avoid sudden changes that could cause slips.
  4. Silicone-based lubricant: Water washes away natural lubrication, so use a silicone-based lube designed for water play.

Best Positions for Shower Sex

Standing Doggy Style

  • One partner stands facing the wall, hands braced against it.
  • The other partner enters from behind, holding their partner's hips for stability.

The Tight Squeeze

  • Both partners face each other.
  • One lifts a leg, wrapping it around the other's waist.
  • The standing partner supports the lifted leg.

Seated Position

  • One partner sits on a shower bench or the edge of the tub.
  • The other partner straddles them, facing either towards or away.

The Waterfall

  • One partner leans back against the shower wall.
  • The other kneels in front for oral stimulation.

Modified Missionary

  • One partner lies on the shower floor (on a non-slip mat).
  • The other partner kneels between their legs.

Remember, shower sex requires good communication and adjustment. Don't be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you and your partner.

Tips to Enhance Your Shower Sex Experience

  1. Foreplay outside the shower: Build anticipation by starting your intimate session before entering the shower.
  2. Use the water strategically: Let the shower head add extra stimulation to erogenous zones.
  3. Bring in scents: Use aromatic body washes or essential oils to enhance the sensory experience.
  4. Temperature play: Experiment with different water temperatures for added sensation.
  5. Keep it quick: Shower sex doesn't have to be a marathon. Short, passionate encounters can be just as satisfying.
  6. Maintain eye contact: This can intensify the intimacy, especially in standing positions.
  7. Incorporate massage: Use the opportunity to soap up and massage each other.
  8. Try new things: The shower can be a great place to explore new sensations or fantasies.

Toys to Elevate Your Shower Play

Introducing waterproof toys can take your shower sex to the next level. Here are some options from Ecstasia:

  1. Waterproof Vibrators: These can provide extra stimulation for both partners. Look for ones with strong vibrations that can be heard over the sound of running water.
  2. Suction Cup Dildos: These can be attached to the shower wall for hands-free play.
  3. Shower Head Attachments: Some attachments turn your regular shower head into a massager for intimate areas.
  4. Waterproof Cock Rings: These can help maintain erections and provide extra stimulation.
  5. Waterproof Anal Toys: If anal play is part of your repertoire, ensure you use toys specifically designed for this purpose.

Remember to clean your toys thoroughly before and after use, following the manufacturer's instructions.

Aftercare and Clean-up

After your shower session:

  1. Dry off carefully: Use soft towels to dry each other, paying extra attention to intimate areas.
  2. Moisturize: Hot water can dry out your skin, so apply moisturizer after your shower.
  3. Hydrate: Drink some water to replenish fluids lost during your steamy session.
  4. Clean the shower: Ensure you clean any lube or bodily fluids from the shower surfaces.
  5. Check in with each other: Discuss what you enjoyed and what you might want to try next time.

Conclusion

Shower sex can be a fun and exciting addition to your intimate life when done safely and creatively. By using the right positions, following these tips, and incorporating waterproof toys, you can turn your everyday shower into a steamy, sensual experience. Remember, communication is key – talk with your partner about what feels good and be willing to adjust as needed. With practice and patience, you'll be having great shower sex in no time.

Ready to explore more ways to spice up your intimate life? Check out Ecstasia's collection of sex toys for women for more ideas and products to enhance your pleasure, in and out of the shower.

 

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