Date Night Just Got Better: 5 Fun (and Spicy) Toys to Try with Your Partner

So, you’ve done the Netflix-and-chill. You’ve tried candlelit dinners, spontaneous road trips, and maybe even a little dirty talk under the covers. But what if you could turn your regular date night into an electrifying, intimate ritual you both actually look forward to, and not just for the snacks?

Sex toys aren’t just for solo play; they’re sexy, playful tools that bring couples closer, encourage honest conversations, and unlock new layers of pleasure. Whether you're in a new relationship or celebrating your tenth anniversary, these toys are curated to bring out the tease, the trust, and the fire.

Ready to heat things up? Here are 5 intimate toys you and your partner will love trying together.

1. Tease – App-Controlled Vibrator

Perfect for: Long-distance couples, public teasing, mutual control, kinky date night fun

Imagine going out to dinner while your partner secretly controls your pleasure from across the table, or even across the country. That’s the magic of Tease. This wearable vibrator fits snugly into your underwear and connects to an app, letting your partner control every pulse and rhythm. And trust us, once you’ve felt the low rumble of vibration during a casual brunch date, you’ll never want to go back to "normal" intimacy again.

Why Couples Love It:

• Discreet and silent, even in public settings
• Hands-free, allowing for eye contact, dirty smiles, and anticipation
• Makes long-distance play feel close again

Pro tip: Start slow with teasing pulses during dinner, then build intensity when you’re back home, or maybe even in the car if you can't wait.

2. Hush – Butt Plug for Couples

Perfect for: Beginners in anal play, couples exploring new sensations, and power dynamics

Anal exploration can be intimidating, but with the right tool and a trusting partner, it becomes a deeply erotic experience. Hush is a beginner-friendly butt plug designed with couples in mind. It’s soft, silicone-smooth, and shaped to stay comfortably in place during sex, oral, or foreplay. Whether worn during penetration or just as part of slow teasing, Hush adds that fullness sensation many couples crave.

Why It Works for Couples:

• Comfortable for extended wear, so you can play longer
• Easy to insert and remove thanks to the tapered design
• Enhances G-spot or P-spot stimulation when used during other activities

Hot idea: Blindfold your partner and take turns using Hush on each other with lots of lube and gentle encouragement. The vulnerability creates trust, and the pleasure builds connection.

3. Rose – Suction Massager

Perfect for: Oral simulation lovers, clitoral pleasure, couples interested in mutual exploration

There’s a reason the Rose became a global viral sensation: it mimics the sensation of oral sex with rhythmic suction and pulsing waves of pleasure. For couples, it’s a beautiful way to introduce toys without any intimidation. Use it during foreplay to get things started, or while your partner watches (and learns!) how you like to be touched.

Why You’ll Both Love It:

• Hands-free clitoral stimulation for partnered sex
• Adds variety to foreplay or solo sessions together
• Teaches your partner where and how you like to be touched

Sensual idea: Let your partner use it on you. Guide their hand, moan louder when it feels right. This turns mutual masturbation into a shared, arousing lesson in real-time intimacy.

4. Lipstick Massager – Discreet and Beginner Friendly

Perfect for: First-time toy users, shy lovers, travel-friendly intimacy

If one of you is still shy about toys, the Lipstick Massager is your smooth entry point. It looks like a sleek lipstick, fits in your palm, and has a surprisingly powerful motor. It’s ideal for light teasing, along your inner thighs, nipples, or clitoris, and even better when your partner takes control.

Why It’s a Hit:

• Non-intimidating, pretty, and portable
• Great for body exploration and “mapping” erogenous zones
• Simple but effective for teasing before sex

Play suggestion: Start with a sensual massage and let your partner use the Lipstick Massager all over your body, build anticipation before heading south. Add blindfolds or gentle restraints for even more fire.

5. Bliss – Dual-Action Pleasure Massager

Perfect for: Penetration + clitoral stimulation, deep blended orgasms, couple use during oral or foreplay

While technically a solo toy, Bliss can easily become a star in your shared bedroom playlist. With a flexible shaft that targets the G-spot and a soft external arm that caresses the clitoris, it delivers dual sensations that are hard to match. During partnered play, Bliss works beautifully during oral sex or while spooning.

Why It’s a Couple's Favourite:

• Lets your partner see how you like to be pleasured
• Can be used hands-free with the right angle
• Encourages creative, face-to-face intimacy

Intimacy idea: Let your partner insert Bliss during foreplay, control the vibrations, and talk dirty to you while watching your body respond. You’ll both discover what turns you on, in real time.

How to Introduce Toys Without Awkwardness ?

Even if you’re intrigued, bringing a toy into the bedroom can feel... vulnerable. Here’s how to ease into it:

• Talk outside the bedroom first. Say, “I read about this toy that sounds really fun. Want to try it with me?”
• Frame it as play, not a replacement. Toys aren’t substitutes; they’re accessories for connection.
• Start with a shared goal. “Let’s just have fun tonight. No pressure, no expectations.”
• Pick something that excites both of you. If you're hesitant, go with a simple, elegant toy like the Lipstick Massager or Hush.

The Emotional Benefits No One Talks About

Using sex toys together isn't just about stronger orgasms (although, yes, those are definitely included). It's about deeper:

• Trust: Exploring new territory requires communication and vulnerability.
• Communication: Toys invite honest talks about what feels good and what doesn’t.
• Confidence: Knowing you can give and receive pleasure in new ways can transform your self-esteem.
• Playfulness: Relationships thrive when couples feel like teammates in pleasure.

Let go of the idea that intimacy should always be spontaneous, flawless, or natural. Real closeness comes from intention and a little creativity. Sex toys aren’t a replacement for love. They’re a beautiful extension of it. A tool. A shortcut. A spark.

So, the next time date night rolls around, skip the small talk and try something a little more adventurous. Open that drawer. Pick a toy. Touch, laugh, moan, tease, and repeat.

Because the real pleasure? That comes from trying something new, together.